Well-written although just a tad too self-help'ish for my tastes. Still, it's good to hear that there's nothing 'unchristian' about saying "No" to other people's requests from time to time, and that "turning the other cheek" doesn't mean letting people walk right over you. I especially liked the chapter about forgiveness - forgiveness doesn't equal reconciliation. Forgiveness takes one, reconciliation takes two. Food for thought.